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Am I bisexual or straight?
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I'm 14 I like girls most of the time usual really femme small kind but I've liked boyish before my past gfs were very feminine types. But I recently met my current gf through friends. She has most of the same friend I do. And acts a lot like one of the guys. She's a goth but she dresses a lot like my friends who are goth who are guys and some wear eyeliner. The weird thing is when I first saw her I thought she was a guy. She likes going by a male nickname. She's as tall as me really thin type broad shoulders narrow hips a heavier voice than the average girl but a lighter voice than the dudes. She wears make up like black make up but still most upon meeting her think she's a dude. She has everything that looks like a dude her hands broad shoulders narrow hips like her hips are totally like a guy's the actual bones skinny tall angular masculine face she's not ugly but even with make up people think she's guy. Her voice is even heavy not as much as most of the guys but her voice sounds like a very light male voice. She dresses like a guy. And when she dresses like a girl people always think she's in drag. She prefers presenting as a boy. Does this make me bi that I was attracted to her even before I knew she was really a girl? I know she's a girl because we've been sexually intimate and she has breasts very small but she's not a biological guy and female genitals. Would this mean I'm bisexual? Most of the guys treat her like one of the guys because she looks socially like a male. But I actually find her very sexually appealing. And I love spending time with her. She's an amazing person IMO.

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That sounds like you like A boyish woman, not that you like men. Perhaps if you identified a pattern you could make something more of it but even then... A boyish woman is still a woman.

The label you put on your sexuality is your to determine though. If you think that being attracted to a more masculine woman makes you bisexual, then that is your call. If you don't think so, then that's fine too.


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It's not just that she acts boyish though. Her looks are masculine not even androgynous really. Besides her actual body seems inbetween like androgynous. Which I really like. When we hold hands in public we get weird looks. She's also not a lesbian she's straight. But people always think we're a young gay couple. I really didn't care though when I saw her I automatically really liked her. Which makes me question because I didn't really care that she looked like a guy. I still felt how I felt about her. Idk

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How do you feel about penis?

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Quote: from Jamesrue14 at 9:45 pm on Jan. 16, 2014

Her looks are masculine ... I really didn't care though when I saw her ... I didn't really care that she looked like a guy. I still felt how I felt about her. Idk

Sounds like you're just being very nonjudgemental. Being attracted to masculine features doesn't 'make' you gay, straight, or anything else.

The only thing is when you said that "I was attracted to her even before I knew she was really a girl?" could be indicative of something about your sexuality and sexual preferences.


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She doesn't have a penis. She has a large clit and I find that hot but I think an actual penis would be a turn off. I've never thought a guy was attractive though.

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Quote: from Khadgar at 9:57 pm on Jan. 16, 2014

Quote: from Jamesrue14 at 9:45 pm on Jan. 16, 2014

Her looks are masculine ... I really didn't care though when I saw her ... I didn't really care that she looked like a guy. I still felt how I felt about her. Idk

Sounds like you're just being very nonjudgemental. Being attracted to masculine features doesn't 'make' you gay, straight, or anything else.  

The only thing is when you said that "I was attracted to her even before I knew she was really a girl?" could be indicative of something about your sexuality and sexual preferences.


Yeah it was odd most of the time I actually do care and like girls who are smaller and femme. But it for some reason didn't apply to her she was attractive in a different way that I didn't know I could be attracted to anyone in that way.


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Quote: from Jamesrue14 at 9:58 pm on Jan. 16, 2014

She doesn't have a penis. She has a large clit and I find that hot but I think an actual penis would be a turn off. I've never thought a guy was attractive though.

Don't like penis... not looking too bisexual to me yet. Would you have sex with and/or date an actual guy?

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im gonna go with both cause its the safe bet

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Quote: from iamironman at 10:58 pm on Jan. 16, 2014

Quote: from Jamesrue14 at 9:58 pm on Jan. 16, 2014

She doesn't have a penis. She has a large clit and I find that hot but I think an actual penis would be a turn off. I've never thought a guy was attractive though.

 

Don't like penis... not looking too bisexual to me yet. Would you have sex with and/or date an actual guy?


No never had an interest in sex with a guy.

My gf and I have had oral sex and I enjoyed that though.


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Quote: from Jamesrue14 at 11:44 pm on Jan. 16, 2014

Quote: from iamironman at 10:58 pm on Jan. 16, 2014

Quote: from Jamesrue14 at 9:58 pm on Jan. 16, 2014

She doesn't have a penis. She has a large clit and I find that hot but I think an actual penis would be a turn off. I've never thought a guy was attractive though.
 

 

 Don't like penis... not looking too bisexual to me yet. Would you have sex with and/or date an actual guy?


No never had an interest in sex with a guy.

My gf and I have had oral sex and I enjoyed that though.



Yeah,I think it's safe to say you aren't bi.

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Unless you partake of a penis....you're not bi.

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Quote: from iamironman at 9:51 pm on Jan. 16, 2014

How do you feel about penis?

Would have to say, it usually comes down to this ^


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